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The gift of gratitude
Published: November 24, 2010
Amy Condra

This time of year when many of us, both in Goochland and far afield, hear “Thanksgiving,” we think of grocery lists, travel plans and the quick tick-down of the clock toward Christmas.

This rushing of thoughts can leave little room for what the day is meant to celebrate: A true giving of thanks for all that we have.

And sometimes, secretly, I wonder if doing so might be easier if there weren’t so many obligations involved!  And I realize that beyond the handprint turkeys and the pilgrim motifs, I don’t really know much about the holiday itself.

When, and why, did Thanksgiving begin to be celebrated in such an organized fashion?

In nineteenth century American, a women’s magazine called Godey’s Lady’s Book was called a “Victorian Bible of the Parlor” and its editor, Sarah Josepha Hale, often preached the gospel of feminine domesticity.

I studied Hale’s work extensively as a history major in college, and I was struck by how this woman’s conventional view (for the time) that women were responsible for the morality of society led to an unconventional stance: She became a vehement supporter of female education, and frequently appealed to politicians, patrons and universities to provide the kind of liberal arts education to women that men could already receive. 

As an editor Hale also transformed a simple woman’s magazine into one where writers such as Irving, Longfellow, Lowell, Holmes, Emerson, Bryant, Whittier and Richmond’s own Edgar Allen Poe became frequent contributors.

And Hale successfully advocated for a national celebration of Thanksgiving, hoping that the holiday would serve to ease the divisions between the North and the South that could lead to a civil war. 

In 1858, Sarah Josepha Hale wrote in her Thanksgiving editorial:

“Let us consecrate the day to benevolence of action, by sending good gifts to the poor, and doing those deeds of charity that will, for one day, make every American home the place of plenty and of rejoicing. These seasons of refreshing are of inestimable advantage to the popular heart; and if rightly managed, will greatly aid and strengthen public harmony of feeling. Let the people of all the States and Territories sit down together to the “feast of fat things,” and drink, in the sweet draught of joy and gratitude to the Divine giver of all our blessings, the pledge of renewed love to the Union, and to each other; and of peace and good-will to all men.”

From Hale, I am inspired by her belief in the potential of people, in her advocacy for education and for writers, and by her understanding that it is when people are the most divided that they most need to gather together, to celebrate all that they have, before it is lost to them forever.

So this week The Gazette hopes that all in Goochland take this opportunity to truly savor a day designed to bring us together, in good will and in good spirits!

- Amy Condra



Reader Comments


Milwaukee Personal Injury Lawyer  |  Dec. 14, 2010, 01:34 PM

I had never heard of Hale before I read this.  She was the “whole package” if you will.  What a great role model for my little girl.  And the notion that Thanksgiving was celebrated the way it is soley to bring people together means that we are still doing it right. That’s exactly what it does…brings families and friends together. Beautiful.


Michael M. McDermott of Maidens, Virginia  |  Nov. 25, 2010, 12:32 AM

As we gather this week with our fellow Americans giving thanks, I can’t help but see this annual celebration drawing a common thread through this publication’s last three editorials regarding societal intolerance, governmental ignorance and respectful citizenship.

  Bullying and intolerance are not new phenomena.  Throughout mankind’s recorded history we have an endless display of disparate group’s conflicts leading to armed conflict, mass migrations and even genocide – all of which we have witnessed in our lifetimes.

  Leaders, unelected and elected, of governments both large and small, have become so power drunk they are beyond the hope a 12-step program’s recovery offers.  Not taking the first step – admitting powerlessness, as they sail smoothly down that magnificent Egyptian waterway we call “de-nile.”  For an addict or an alcoholic, “one is too many, and a thousand never enough.” Those we elect to serve all too often become blinded and wayward in the throes of their power.  Yet we citizens tolerate malfeasance because there seems a certain distorted security in familiar discomfort.

  When dissent speaks, it is quickly silenced.  Those in power scold, “You don’t have all the facts…You don’t see the big picture…You don’t understand why we have to do what we do…”

  These United States of America were founded by normal folks who made great personal sacrifices, risked their lives, and suffered immensely so we enjoy the many freedoms we have as Americans.  Yes, our country, its founders, and leaders over time have made mistakes.  We can never forget the indignities Native Americans and African Americans have suffered.

  I am grateful, and give thanks, for all who truly serve Goochland – our Sheriffs Deputies, Fire and EMS Volunteers, government staff, classroom teachers, cafeteria workers, bus drivers, librarians, custodians and all those other selfless “worker bees’ whom our tax dollars employ.

  Fellow Americans have died for our rights.  Fellow Americans daily risk their lives defending the First Amendment rights I, by writing, and this publication, by printing, exercise.  We have the right to free assembly, and most importantly to vote.

  In addition to giving thanks on Thanksgiving, lets all show our thanks the first Tuesday of next November at the polls.  We can stop being bullied by our current county leadership, end governmental ignorance and practice respectful citizenship one vote at a time.


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